"Love As You Will is all about having great sex through keeping it real. In the current sexual world we live in, it’s easy to get caught up in all the talk about how you ‘should’ be having sex, or what the ‘right’ way to have sex might be. Great sex, very simply, is about brushing those messages off and forging the path that most realistically suits your authentic sexual self."
"GSF 3.4: Great Sex Can Happen All Throughout Life. There are a lot of rumors, myths, and prejudices about and against older people bangin’ it out 'past their prime.' Based on rising STI rates in senior communities … all I can really say is: Old people don’t seem to give a shit about these rumors, myths, and prejudices.
"Because I don’t spend my days watching you bang it out (believe it or not), there’s no way for me to define what “great sex” means for you. And because I can’t define greatness for you, I’m going to get straight to helping you define great sex for yourself!"
"Implied is that if you want to love as YOU will, you’ve gotta allow others to love as THEY will. Which means rape is totally out of the question, as it is a direct violation of the ‘love as you will’ principle. Rape sucks and is the exact opposite of great sex. And because this blog is all about helping people to have fantastic sex, the next principle of GSF #3 is super important."
"Essentially, spending your life wishing you were getting something you're not is a fantastic strategy ... if you're trying to have consistently mediocre, unsatisfying, or "meh" status sex."
"This great sex fundamental is all about reminding you that consistently great sex requires a beefed up skill set. Although working what your mama gave ya' can get you pretty far in terms of bangin' sex, having consistently great sex all throughout your life means being willing to push yourself past your natural abilities."
"If you have people around you to support you during your quest to have great sex, they pat you on the back when you succeed and make you feel great about your success. When you fail, they're there to give you a hug or give you a pep talk or even just listen to you when you need to talk it out."
"Without coaches, those bowl games would’ve just been really yoked out dudes bashing into each other at random. Could be hot, but it’s not great football. Great football takes skill. Great sex takes skill. Football skills improve when you have coaches involved."
"Great sex requires taking risks. In my last post, I talked all about the positive side of risk taking! It would be irresponsible of me to pretend like risk taking always works out. Because the truth of the matter is that when you're taking risks, achieving greatness is just as likely as experiencing an epic fail."
"Great sex is a skill (great sex fundamental #2 in the house). A skill is a learned ability. As per the quote above, learning requires that you take risks. So if great sex is a skill and a skill is a learned ability and you have to take risks to learn… you get: GSF 2.2: Great sex means taking risks."
Despite popular belief, great sex is not a natural ability -- it's a skill. This post details 3 really important skills you need to build up if you want to have great sex.
Great Sex Fundamental 1: Know The Sexual Body. Sex happens in the body, so knowing how your body works when it gets turned on is clutch. This post is a huge breakdown of what feels good where when you get turned on.
Have you ever heard of the erotic potential of the prostate? You've probably hear just as many myths. Becca busts some serious p-spot myths in this post.
Sometimes, the road to G-Spot pleasure can be an epic journey. This post will help you make your journey as successful as possible!
Want to make anal play as hot and pleasurable as possible? Check out this post.
Check out this post for a basic framework of what feels good where when your (or your partner's) penis gets turned on!
This post breaks down what feels good where when the vulva and vagina are aroused.
Learn a great equation for figuring out just how sexually sensitive your body can get when you're aroused. (This post contains no actual mathematics.)
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I Want! To Be A Great Kisser: This post details the basics of kissing pleasure physiology, ways to up your kissing game, and an analysis of the top 10 google web hits.